“When all is said and done, you are part of me. That's the way it was meant to be. People are brought together for a reason, everything happens for a reason. I believe the reason that you and me were brought together was because we complete one another. We fill in each other's missing spots with love. And if someday God decides to tear us apart, I trust that there is a reason. Cause if there is a reason for love, there is a reason for life beyond it.”
Leia Mais…Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Thursday, April 8, 2010
The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love (Osho)
"The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is not. It is an existential truth: only those persons who are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of the other person - without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.
Then why do they want to be together? It is no longer a need; it is a luxury. Try to understand it. Real persons love each other as a luxury; it is not a need. They enjoy sharing: they have so much joy; they would like to pour it into somebody. And they know how to play their life as a solo instrument.
The solo flute player knows how to enjoy his flute alone. And if he comes and finds a tabla player, a solo tabla player, they will enjoy being together and creating a harmony between the flute and the tabla. Both will enjoy it: They will both pour their richness into each other"
I have a print out of this on my desk and i read it everyday, it's one thing to read it but an other to be constantly reminded.
Love
Everyone thinks that loves the answer and that once they fall in love everything will run smoothly what they don't realise is that love is really a vessel for expressing your deepest core fully and openly, for man, if you are unable to flow with the harmony of your purpose, love is merely a distraction which will countlessly upset you and leave you thinking why you are making the same mistakes.
If love and openness is an expression of your everyday life, you will realise love never ends, just because you've broken up with your lover, doesn't mean your no longer in love,you will always remain as love because its who you are and not what you need.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Destiny
What if our destiny is determined by whether we are opening or closing in each moment. It's very simple, for e.g. i fell down the stairs today and smashed my head pretty badly, I sat there with my hands covering my head.
I was in intense pain yet i thought about opening and breathing what i felt as opposed to closing, but the pain was too intense, i tried again to open and then i let it go and just sat there feeling the pain.
This is obviously a random example in terms of linking it to destiny but if you look at the bigger picture some days you will go through moments where you either won't enjoy or wont particularly feel happy about something that occurs, now what are you doing, closing ? or opening?
Are you detaching yourself from the world or are you living and breathing it? i think this a key link to the universe aligning itself to you and giving you endless possibilities, because if you swim with the tide and accept the fact that the every day is ever changing you will reap the benefits of living in the moment.
Pain is merely a superhero with a dark cape, you think it's the bad guy but if you feel through it, stay open and accept it, it will save you.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Awakened.
As it sit here writing, the last couple of weeks have made me realised I have awakened.
What exactly has awaken upon me I am yet to find out, all I know so far is that we measure life based on what we think we need and we are to afraid to go for what we actually want.
Our safety perimeter constricts us, it creates a Hollywood ending in which we believe everything will end up nice and dandy, well scrap that. Life is death and it surrounds us everywhere we go, time is limited.
What we do moment by moment defines us, so we are either opening or closing. Now I want to make an oath, which is no matter what life throws at me I will remain open, and appreciate everything and everybody that comes into my life, to never hold back and for my words not to just be as elegant as my actions but far beyond.
I survive because oxygen allows my body too function, now it’s all about breathing it all and letting myself go free.
All i can ask for is nothing
All I can ask for is nothing, who am I to say I need someone to be happy, I realise more every day, that pain is god’s way of giving his gift of enlightenment. He gave us everything; he can also remove it from us, at any time.
Nothing ever remains, death is imminent and is god’s way of reminding us to always keep our hearts open, because one day, our hearts will stop beating and to do yourself and the world the injustice of closing your heart of before you die is deadly in its own right, if you don’t embrace all of the magical, painful and vast array of emotions in your life and be grateful that you can feel them because you are alive and have the gift of knowing you exist in a place that is full of love and beautiful people, then you your not living a life you desire.
Letting go, whilst opening.
Here I am, vulnerable, open and soft hearted, not tainted by the world. I remain my own, no one else’s, free to be who I choose without remorse, i have loved and felt an intense high of gratitude. I see the world in a different perspective, for i now will always remain open to breathe in what the divine has to offer.
I have let my love go, for she is on her own journey, but my love for her remains, there is nothing a beautiful feminine graceful woman can do to change the way I see them, they make me want to come out my skin and scream with delight, the habits which annoy me actually make me fall more in love with them, the fact that they can evoke such powerful emotion from me, to test my frame and capacity to remain open and free, how can you ever resent any woman that has done you wrong, for they are the reason your race exists, how would you treat a delicate flower? With nurture and care and just the right amount of water, too much, and it dies, death is inevitable, it will happen to everyone and everything around us.
People see death as the start, but it is only the beginning, the death of a relationship is only the biggest gift you could ever receive, it creates a sense of profound pain and if you dig deeper you realise the pain is cleverly disguised as liberation, if you allow it to take its course and feel through it as opposed to holding back you will notice how beautiful our abilities as humans are to go beyond emotion and in turn if you accept your state and dig deeper you will realise, there is a plan for everyone.. and we may not all stay on course or get to our final destination but at least we know we have the power to breathe the love surrounding us in and close our eyes holding back the tears, knowing we have lived.
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